August 7, 2012
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Things will fall in place
I happened to chance upon an ex-friend’s Facebook the other day when I was browsing thru some photos of my friends.
Ex-friend? Yes ex-friend.
We used to be closed. Meet up almost everyday. Worked at the same hotel. Smoked the same cigs. Drink from the same glass.
But things goes wrong somewhere and we fight. We quarrel. I refused to forgive her for the things she did. She sent me a message via Friendster back then, saying that she regretted for the things she have done, wishing that I would give her another chance so that we can be friends again.
I didn’t.
Call me stubborn. Say I’m an idiot. But I would never allow anyone who hurt me once to enter my circle of trust again.
Same goes for anyone.
I don’t know why, looking at her Facebook makes me ponders these few days. She got married last year, which is something that’s supposed to be happy for her for.
Except that she married someone old enough to be her father (or at least looks old enough).
That’s life, I guess? She’s once so in love with young guys, while I’m so into guys who are at least a 7-year gap from me.
In the end I married Joeness who’s merely 3 years older than me and she married someone definitely much older than her.
Sometimes in life, things just won’t go the way you want but everything will just fall nicely into place.
It’s always that way isn’t it?