Let's just say that sexual preference is something that you're born with, and not external factors like peers, environment or painful experiences eg. being hurt emotionally by someone of the opposite sex to the point that you chose to become a homo, or vice versa.

And instead of what others call it as straight, your sexual preference happens to be known as homo, or gay and lesbian, will you chose to hide from everyone and lead a secret life where no one knows you're dating someone, or would you rather be open about it?

Or let's look at this topic at another angle now.

If apparently you happen to be someone who is at the best of both worlds. A bi-sexual. You're a guy, you fancies handsome gays and also sleeps with girls at different times of your life.

Or another way round, you're a woman who used to date girls, who now marries a guy and still admires and gets turn on when you see a very pretty lady.

Would you let your friends or other half know about your sexual preference?

To be frank, I feel that there's no reason why you should hide your sexual preference. Yes work wise it might be a problem because of discrimination but friends? Close friends? Family members? I don't think you should hide from them.

In in terms of work, there's a lot of industry that doesn't discriminate homosexuals. I've worked in f&b, customer service, beauty and entertainment industries and these are proven industries that people only care if you perform your job well, not your sexual preference. I'm sure there's a lot other industries out there that are the same too, just that I probably haven't come across yet.

Friends wise, if they're your true friends, they shouldn't (and wouldn't) judge you AT ALL. Just because you're having different sexual preference from the rest of your group of friends doesn't make you a lousier friend in the first place. Get the facts right if you want to judge: it's the character of a friend that determines if they're lousy or not.

And seriously no one person in this world have to get over sensitive about what others will say about you and your sexual preference. It's the same as though your preference of food; I suppose you don't have to hide under the table or your bed to eat just because you love say, raw eggs? All because you're scared that people will find out and judge you or discriminate you?

And with regards to my title for this entry, wells.

I leave it for those who loves to judge to find out then.

Till next time~

XOXO

A.C.

Something random but I have to confess that I hate classical music.

When I was young my brother is a classical music freak who tunes my radio to the classical music channel and fill our home with those creepy violin and piano noise.

The only two that catches my attention is Canon and Swan Lake. Canon later on becomes my ultimate most favorite ring tone (other than WWE Shawn Michaels' entrance theme) and I'm still using it as my ring tone on my iPhone today (because whenever my phone rang and it's Shawn Michaels those old uncles and guys would give me the 'WTF' look). Swan Lake on the other hand, the tune just catches my attention and some how, I don't find it disturbing like other classical music do.

Nearly 10 years ago, just when I was listening to the radio announcing SHE's new song 'Remember', the familiar tune of Swan Lake comes into my mind again. 

Hear the similiarity?

I am not a big fan of S.H.E. but their songs are usually the top hits in KTVs and since back then before I started visiting clubs I was a KTV fanatic so I begin listening to quite a fair bit of their songs. I still remember my "yyp - ya ya papaya" days where I would visit KTVs and make friends with the waiters and male managers there to get free drinks, more tidbits free of charge and also, longer singing hours for free. 

S.H.E. not only have used Swan Lake, but later on, they have another classical element in their other song too.

Mozart’s Symphony 40, yes it's that tune you always hear from the hotel lift lobby, from that irritating classical music radio channel, from everywhere.

S.H.E. actually used this in their song years later. 

And if classical music is not enough, they make children's song sound adult-ish cute by adding 'London Bridge is falling down' to their list of songs they sang.

Thanks to S.H.E, I now hate classical music lesser. 

Hope that Selina is gonna come back soon and they have their next album. I wonder if they gonna add in any classical music this time to make me hate them less. Hmmz...

Till next time,

XOXO

A.C.

I’ve been blogging for…. 8 years.

Throughout these while I’ve seen a lot of people becoming famous (or infamous) with the help of blogs. Xiaxue (Wendy Cheng), Dawn Yang, Michelle Phan are just a few.

Because of that, I know a lot of people have been trying to become a blogger wannabe. They see how these simple people transformed and become popular and have been trying to copy them, with the intention of wanting to become famous.

Honestly, there’s a few ways to make your blog to become popular. I’ve tried some of the ways personally and *ahemz* these are just my humble opinion by the way. I am no famous blogger of cos but I realize that these are some of the ways that you can make your blog famous. Results not guaranteed by the way, luck plays a part too.

BE AN ABSOULTE BITCH

This is TRIED & TESTED by me personally. I notice that every single time I wrote something very bitchy (like for example, to bitch about some people and some issues) my blog hits will just shoot up immediately. But of cos, you have to bitch at the correct person/issues. Best way to gain that sudden blast of fame is to bitch about famous people (especially bloggers who are well-known) or popular people with a lot of supporters who use the internet. (No point bitching about people whose fans are in their 40s and above; they don’t even use the internet!)

CREATE A BLOG WAR WITH A FAMOUS BLOGGER

I’ve seen way too many of these. If you want to create a “war”, you have to declare “war” with famous bitchy people who will fight back in the virtual world (that is, famous bloggers / twitters / youtubers / online celebrity). Being defensive by nature, bitchy people will fight back to defend themselves or to create hype so that people will stand on their side. (I admit that I am one bitchy bitch myself. Don’t let me find out that you’re bitching about me or else I’ll make sure I blast it all out here.) By choosing to declare “war” with these bitchy people it also meant that what you write has to be bitchy too, and best if you can add in photos of the ones being aimed by you. Of cos, be prepared that you’ll be surrounded and bombed with very nasty remarks and sarcasm from these famous people’s supporters / fans. And usually these people will hunt you down and make sure you’re being demeaned to the worst-est you can ever imagine. Friends and family may be involved too, you’re warned.

PHOTOSHOP ALL YOUR PICTURES TO LOOK GORGEOUS

Nobody wants to be ugly or look at ugly things. Same logic, everyone wants to look at pretty things, pretty photos, and pretty blogs. If you happened to look ordinary (which everyone falls in this category honestly), you definitely have to learn the art of photoshop. But please, when I say, photoshop, I mean REALLY PHOTOSHOPPED to look gorgeously pretty.

If you can’t master the art of photoshop, practise make up to doll yourself helps too. False lashes, circle lenses, pouty lips, slimmer face, sharper nose, whatever you can think of. Learn to take pretty photos of yourself with make up so that less photoshop time is needed. When pictures of you are being made known, you know your name is heard.

HAVE A TALENT… AND FLAUNT IT

Master make up and be a guru. Learn pole dancing and take videos of you dancing. Get creative and do nail art tutorials. Teach people how to dress well and let them have a better fashion sense. Sing songs, record them and post in your blog. Honestly, if you’re really good, people will start following you to see your talent. For all you know, Xanga has created ricebunny, otherwise known as the famous Michelle Phan now.

BE A DRAMAMAMAMAMAMA

Make your blog as drama as possible. Write about dramatic events, happenings and ‘happenings’. Be as truthful as possible. You can lie about these drama. Even if they do get exposed, you must never ever admit it and continue your drama. The more dramatic your life is, the more people will want to continue reading it to know more. Write about how pitiful your life is, how your boyfriend threaten to suicide if you don’t continue to be with him. Say you almost got kidnapped by unknown people or you lost your passport while travelling overseas. Go clubbing and got slapped by a bunch of bitchy girls who thought you’re the slut that snatched one of the girl’s boyfriend. Whatever drama you can think of, people just love to read dramas as much as they love watching it.

MAKE YOUR BLOG BEING HEARD

This is the part that I love about Xanga. By publishing your blog entries on facebook or create a plugz to be one of the featured Xangarian, you gain exposure to more people coming over to your blog and see what blogging qualities you have. (Side track: Aww it’s so just nice that I am featured together with PrincessMic by my side, a fellow Singaporean Xangarian!)

NUDE PHOTOS, A SURE VIEWERS MAGNET?

NOT REALLY. Unless you have fabulous body and BIG boobs, don’t even think of going there. And by posting nude pictures, it simply means that you’re gonna attract THAT group of viewers. Yes, porn viewers. You can say your nude photos are artistic shots but I’m sorry, artistic nude photos usually don’t get that much viewers as compared to those who are posting erotic nude photos.

Sometimes, near nude/erotic photos do the trick better than all nude photos.

These are just some of the ways I’ve noticed that you can do to make your blog popular. Of cos the results is not guaranteed, you need some patience (to gather viewers and followers), make your blog known and have lady luck to be on your side.

If you intend to start a blog to be on your road to famous after reading this, good luck.

What other ways can you do to make your blog popular?

Till next time~

XOXO

A.C.

If you're expecting nude photos, sorry to disappoint you.

Cos there's only pictures of me making funny faces after a good shower. 

This is kinda random cos I just have the sudden urge to camwhore.

I was lucky to have good skin day today. Festive mood I suppose?

A short break from work helps too. 

I'm so easily contented. WTF. 

Work is like mad sometimes. Lucky I'm still sane.

"What was I thinking"!

This is even worst...

I think I better stop before people start thinking I have gone insane. 

HAPPY CHINESE NEW YEAR~!!!

Till next time~

XOXO

A.C.

You know when you are young and innocent and cute and naïve and everything that sounds cute and “ah~” the adults tend to be very protective of you. To the extent that most of the time they would actually make you sit beside them during meals and fed you.

That’s what I call spoon feeding. All you need to do is to open your mouth and you’ll be fed with food. 

But as you grow older, obviously you have to learn to do things on your own. You stop the adults from feeding you but instead, hold the spoon yourself, scoop the food using the spoon you’re holding and stuff the food into your mouth yourself. 

Unfortunately, some people just refuse to grow up. They think that everyone should treat them like babies. They feel that the moment they open their mouth others must feed them immediately. 

These people definitely won’t dare to ask people to feed them with food (thou once a while I love to make fun of my friends to feed me what they’re eating ) but rather, they refused to do the manual things themselves and expect people to help them the moment they open their mouth. 

And their usual excuse? I can’t ________

“I can’t find it leh”

“I can’t get it”

“I can’t do it”

I can’t everything.

Crapz.

I don’t understand this. If the thing is there, IT IS THERE. If you can’t find from it in the computer, what’s the point of having a search function in windows? 

And please, if you need to search for some information, GOOGLE IS ALWAYS YOUR BEST FRIEND. 

Don’t you think it’s embarrassing to keep troubling others to spoon feed you?

Till next time~

XOXO

A.C.