I have got so much unhappy stuffs to bitch and rant and now it's time for me to do the opposite for the time being.

BECAUSE I AM F*CKING HAPPY~! HAHAHAHA....

I don't know how to blog it out about how happy I am, and vlogging it seems not a great idea so I shall not tell you people what I'm happy about.

Let me continue to be this happy for the moment. =)


You know you hate me,

XOXO

A.C.

Don't put the blame on others.

This is one thing that everyone MUST learn.

Unfortunately, someone in the family known as the Meanie's mother in law doesn't understand this because she's a freakingly selfish self-centred woman who only wants people to do things her way, obeys whatever shitty requests she has and point fingers at anyone else except her when things happen.

And because of this, I'm being implicated.

Myth: She's pointing fingers at me and Joeness, saying that we're heartless because we didn't allow her to stay in our new home (that's currently going-to-be under renovation)

Truth: I've been worrying about where she'll be staying after her divorce with my father in law to the extend that I had insomnia and can't concentrate at work. It's not that Joeness and I didn't allow her to stay with us, but our flat only has 3 rooms, which 1 will be occupied by us and another by my mum. My mother in law is NOT coming to stay with us ALONE, but with Joeness's THREE SIBLINGS. So you want to squeeze 4 persons in a room? Who'll be the more heartless one if I do that you tell me? And back then it was her who chased us out of the house, demanding us to go get a flat of our own and move out ASAP and she will not want to stay with us.

Myth: She claims that she's happy me and Joeness are married and hence I have to call her Mama.

Truth: Guess what she call me just now? Xiao Jie (Miss)! And what she says when Joeness and I said I'm worried for her? I'm an outsider and I don't have to care about her family issues. That's exactly the same as telling me "you're not part of my family, whatever that's happening is none of your business".

Myth: She says I'm bad tempered and threw my temper on her, claiming that I raise my voice at her and I am rude to her.

Truth: Who will be able to withstand staying with my mother in law WITHOUT getting pissed by her actions for more than a week, I salute you. I'm sorry but she's quite a very difficult woman to handle and throughout all these years staying with her, I never ever raise my voice or throw any temper at her before be it her pissing me off or nags at me non stop over rival issues that DOESN'T involve me. Those who know me would have known me well for my bad temper (which even my mummy has got it from me) and she still dare to call me ill-tempered.

Why I say all these is because, when a relationship turns sour, you have to handle it yourself because no one else can help you. But my mother in law don't think this way. She's filing a divorce with my father in law recently (despite that over 50s age still wanna do all these shite... ) and after which she's gonna be homeless. Instead of thinking how to solve the homeless issue, she only wants to put the problems onto her kids which will in turn, cause her kids to suffer. I kinda pity my 2nd brother in law because I know he sure gonna suffer a lot in the upcoming future from his mum. And just because me and Joeness got our own flat, we're not spared. She blames Joeness and I for getting married, applying a flat without concerning where she'll have to stay if she's divorced and says me and Joeness are selfish and only cares for ourselves. She puts the blame on my father in law who wants to divorce her (that's a long long long story which I shall not elaborate here). She only wants things to go her way and no matter who hears it will also think her mentallity is childish and not workable but whoever tries to explain to her that, she'll think we're not on her side.

I came from a complicated family. But that doesn't give you a reason to critisize me nor my family. My mum nor my dad nor my brother had ever ever ever come to give you any problems. When you're having problems my mummy even offered her listening hear to console and council you. I love my mum and my brother and they're the ones who stood by me when I needed support. You have no right to say my family.

Pardon me for my long ramblings, I really had enough of my mother in law's nonsense.

To me, I just feel that relationship can be kept simple: be together if you think you both should, and part peacefully when it's time to end. When a relationship turns sour, be it a pre-married relationship or post-married relationship that involves divorce and even the children, never ever blame anyone else........ except you and your partner.

If unfortunately you and your partner already had kids and going on separate ways is the only way for both of you, please don't ever blame the kids; they're innocent and it's not their choice to come to this world. It's you the parents who decided to give birth to them instead of going for an abortion. Even if your kids are already an adult, married and you're already a grandparent filing for divorce, don't ever point your fingers at your kids and say it's all their fault for your failed marriage.

I had 2 failed relationships before meeting Joeness. First relationship me and my first ex ended off peacefully when things turns sour for us. We talked and decided that we're just not the right one for each other and hence parted without big quarrels and fights. Shouldn't all relationships should end this way so that you won't leave a scar to anyone?

I seriously don't know what the heck my mother in law is thinking. I'm kinda glad that my renovation is starting and soon I'll be moving out with Joeness. I can't wait for that day to come even though I know it's coming very soon.

You know you hate me,

XOXO

A.C.

I HATE MY MOTHER IN LAW TO THE CORE.

SHE'S UNREASONABLE, STUPID, DUMB AND BRAINLESS.

SHE NEVER EVEN BOTHER TO PUT HERSELF IN OTHER PEOPLE'S SHOES AND ONLY THINK ALL FOR HERSELF.

SHE'S A SELFISH IDIOTIC SLUT.

I HATE HER TO THE CORE AND DON'T BOTHER ABOUT ASKING ME WHAT HAPPENED.

I HATE EVERYTHING THAT'S HAPPENING!!!!!!!!

LOLs this is so random.

I wonder if it's because I've outgrown the age that I'll be affected by nasty negative comments, or nowadays I simply don't care.

Recently on my beauty blog, someone posted a negative comment, saying that my makeup skills are lousy and I didn't watch and follow those YouTube gurus. This person even further commented on me having droppy eyes and oily forehead.

Apparently, I guess most girls will be either blood-boiling mad or depressingly-sad when they see something like this on their blog.

Instead, I felt nothing.

NOTHING.

Neither am I happy that someone is pointing out my flaws, nor am I angry or sad.

I take it as a constructive feedback.

And that reminds me:

Love your haters, Hate your lovers

Sounds weird? Maybe a detailed explanation will make you understand why.

Imagine one day you wore a dress that totally don't suit you. The cuttings makes you look fatter, the colours make you look way older than your actual age, the material of the dress is of low quality that makes you look like you're wearing rags.

On top of that, you have a bad hair day and major breakout on your face.

Sounds like a major disaster day?

But, to your lovers, they might tell you a white lie, saying that you look fine and good with that dress. They might console you that bad hair days and major breakouts will go away. Worst of all, some could even not bothered by all these because to them, you are who you are not how you look or what you're wearing.

Then the haters?

They'll look at you and laugh behind you, commenting on how bad you look that day.

They'll emphasize on your flaws and even after that disasterous day they'll keep reminding you of it.

The bolder ones might even take pictures of you then spread around the Internet.

Sounds so bad that you wanna die?

Look on the bright side.

No thanks to them, you'll remember that you look fugly in that attire and will never commit the same mistakes again.

You'll eat well and take care of your skin to make sure there's as little chance of breakouts as possible.

You'll not allow yourself to step out of the house with messy hair on your bad hair days.

The end result? You'll always look good.

So now who has helped you?

YOUR HATERS OBVIOUSLY.

So the next time you realise there's one more hater in your life, be happy.

Because there's one more busybody who will help you to make sure you'll improve and be a better person.


P/s: Remember that anti-camwhore old hag in my previous entry? I bet she didn't learn this well. Maybe... She's so craving for attention that she no longer use her brain? Or maybe... She doesn't even have one in the first place? LOLs.



You know you hate me,

XOXO

A.C.

I am no pretty gorgerous myself and I know it.

As much as ME is concern, I love taking photos because many years down the road, when I look at those photos of the past I can feel the memories, the days when my makeup style and dressing is totally different from now, my friends and etc.

YET, there's some people out there who are simply, in short, TOO HIGHLY OF THEMSELVES.

She calls people who camwhore narcissist and vain pots. She dislikes seeing girls who post pretty chio pictures of themselves and says they can look good because of stupid reasons. She is jealous of girls who have pretty photos of themselves everywhere in their facebook, blog and etc.

Before she even blog about that entry she should look at herself in the mirror.
(And that reminds me, probably she can't because the moment she do this, the mirror will crack - due to her fugly look that she had deceived herself being a beauty all these while.)

She calls herself an et, which stands for extraordinary toot --- I think exceptionally toopid sounds better for her.

One look at her and you know she's just like some old hag who craves for more people to look at her. OMFG at the photos...

No boobs, still wanna wear v-cut? Almost bare eyebrows, small eyes, big flat nose, bare face? I doubt people would want to take a second look at you, attention seeking fugly old hag!

What really pukes me was this:

If your eyes are not clear enough, I've highlighted this for you:

Ms Exceptionally Toopid, please read the following C-A-R-E-F-U-L-L-Y:

NOBODY WOULD WANT TO LOOK AT A WOMAN WHO HAVE OILY SKIN, FACE WITH SCARS, MESSY HAIR AND UGLY BIG ROUND NOSE!

And you still think "That goes without saying" that you're not bad? OMFG stop deceiving youself that you're pretty, pretty please?

You look like VERY BAD to me instead of NOT BAD.

If you got time to blog and bitch about people who wants to look good in photos, why would others not have the time to camwhore?

And honestly, camwhore is a form of talent. If you know from which angle you'll look good, it only takes less than 1 minute to have a few photos taken. And yes, YOU don't have the talent! Otherwise you wouldn't even blog about something like this.

Seeing this really makes me wanna laugh at her stupidity to the max. What she had stated down, other than PHOTOSHOP, are all the things that people do TO MAKE THEMSELVES GOOD LOOK IN PERSON.

So tell me, WHAT'S WRONG WITH WANTING TO LOOK GOOD IN PERSON?

And you call these people vain pot? Sounds more like you're totally jealous of people who looks pretty.

And Nose surgery and Photoshop. Isn't that a direct insult to our Singapore blogger queen Xiaxue?

Nobody in this world wants to be ugly.

I can't help but to bitch about this fugly attention seeking old hag because I simply can't stand woman who thinks she's pretty and highly of themselves. If she's really pretty I have nothing to say. Some old hag like her to slam at people who doll themselves up? No lives spared. Furthermore what she had stated down seems like a direct bombing at me because

1. I wear coloured contact lens
2. I wear false lashes and eyeliner
3. My hair was rebonded
4. I've wore braces and I'm using whitening toothpaste
5. I didn't do any nose job, but once a plastic surgeon told me mine looks so good it's a bit like those who have went through the cut to get it (thanks to my indian heritage)
6. I use foundations that makes my skin looks glowing (like hello~ it's part of my job to have proper grooming!)
7. I photoshop my photos to make them look lomo

Isn't that like a direct bombing at people like me?

I doubt nobody would want to ask who are you in the first place old hag! And do what you want? Go ahead, we have no problem with ugly people like you. Since you love to "chuay dai zi" (translation: "seek trouble" in hokkien) I think it's you who gotta problem.

I'm not gonna post her link here for her to earn her web hits. I'm not that toopid like her!

But if anyone is keen to read this post that triggers the Meanie to take actions on, here is the full print screen:

OMG I hate her for making me post ugly photos in my blog. You ugly old hag! You better pray hard that for your whole life I'll never ever see you in person or else no way that I'll spare you from my mean-ness.

You know you hate me,

XOXO

A.C.